What does your role look like at church?

This question was brought up by Joel in this comment. “I volunteer in the youth ministry on Wednesday nights and Sunday mornings. It can be tough to discern whether I’m there as a volunteer, or as a spouse supporting his youth pastor wife. So, which is it for other spouses? At youth group, are you a volunteer, or a spouse, or a lot of both?

For myself I would say I lean more on the volunteer side, but definitely support my wife when I can and more than any one else on staff would.  But I guess that comes with the territory.  

SNYDER